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‘The Garden Brought Me Back to Life’: A Revitalized Yard for a Sag Harbor Couple

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‘The Garden Brought Me Back to Life’: A Revitalized Yard for a Sag Harbor Couple

October 20, 2026

When Bette Lou Fletcher and her husband Bruce moved to Sag Harbor, New York, during their retirement, Bette Lou was determined to build the garden she’d always dreamed of. She connected with local landscape designer Daria Szalinska, who had just established her own design practice, Landelier Landscape Atelier. 

Bette Lou told Szalinska she longed for a garden room, an abundance of flowers that would feed and attract wildlife, and a deer-free zone to grow vegetables and cut flowers. One thing she didn’t need? A lawn. “I was beyond excited when Bette Lou told me she did not want a lawn,” says Szalinska. “I had been following Meadow Lab for some time, waiting for their wildflower sod to become available and for the right project where I could use it.” Bette Lou was game to try it out. In Szalinska’s redesign of the Fletcher’s yard, turf grass is used only for pathways and parking, with meadow sod replacing much of the former front lawn.

Bette Lou was also keen to keep the brick walkway, picket fence, and trellis that Bruce had built, a request that at first felt like a design challenge to Szalinska. As is so often the case, the constraints brought about especially lovely solutions. After debating the idea of weaving brick into a larger patio, Daria decided to use organic bluestone pavers, pushed right up against the existing brick, creating a moment of contrast. And surrounded by meadow and perennial plantings, the fence “took on a much softer, almost nostalgic character,” says Szalinska. To create the “rooms” that Bette Lou desired, Szalinska leaned on rigid geometry for the patio and paths; she also designed a fire pit surrounded by a ring of crepe myrtles and a fenced area in back to grow fruits, vegetables, and Bette Lou’s beloved dahlias.  

One of the biggest changes Szalinska made is not visible in the photos because it was an act of concealment. She shifted the driveway closer to the edge of the property line, carving out more space for the garden. The landscape contractor Coastal Arborcare raised the grade of the garden, which helped hide the driveway. The final touch was to plant a hedge of native northern bayberry, which screens the driveway from the garden in a naturalistic way. “Bruce got a practical working area and Bette Lou a beautiful garden—making both of them happy,” says Szalinska.

Already, in its first year, the garden is lush, filled with blossoms and wildlife. Bette Lou finally has the garden she’d always imagined, but more significantly, she says, “The garden brought me back to life.” Not only is she surrounded by beauty, she’s been inspired to pick up her camera after years away from photography. “I can’t express the joy that it’s brought me,” she says. 

Let’s take a tour of this Sag Harbor garden. (And be sure to scroll to the end for the “before” shot.)

Photography by Laura Castrillón, courtesy of Landelier Landscape Atelier.

The handy homeowner had built beautiful fences and pathways, but most of the yard was just lawn. Now lawn is used only for pathways and everything else is meadow or garden.
Above: The handy homeowner had built beautiful fences and pathways, but most of the yard was just lawn. Now lawn is used only for pathways and everything else is meadow or garden.
The homeowners wanted to keep the brick path, so Szalinksa conceived of a design in which the irregular bluestone pavers meet the brick. “It&#8\2\17;s a very nice contrast of this old brick and this very natural, irregular bluestone,” she says. Nepeta &#8\2\16;Six Hills Giant&#8\2\17; is tucked into a corner between the two hardscape materials.
Above: The homeowners wanted to keep the brick path, so Szalinksa conceived of a design in which the irregular bluestone pavers meet the brick. “It’s a very nice contrast of this old brick and this very natural, irregular bluestone,” she says. Nepeta ‘Six Hills Giant’ is tucked into a corner between the two hardscape materials.
An elegant bird house by Pour Joy sits on a post in the unenriched section of Meadow Lab&#8\2\17;s Signature Native wildflower sod; the property is filled with birdbaths and feeders. 
Above: An elegant bird house by Pour Joy sits on a post in the unenriched section of Meadow Lab’s Signature Native wildflower sod; the property is filled with birdbaths and feeders. 
The firepit area is almost completely concealed by the surrounding circle of crepe myrtles when they are in leaf. The firepit is a 36-inch carbon steel model from the brand Fire Pit Art. The teak chairs are the Douglas Nance Santa Fe Adirondack Chairs.
Above: The firepit area is almost completely concealed by the surrounding circle of crepe myrtles when they are in leaf. The firepit is a 36-inch carbon steel model from the brand Fire Pit Art. The teak chairs are the Douglas Nance Santa Fe Adirondack Chairs.
With their interesting bark, crepe myrtles offer four-season interest; they also hold personal meaning for the homeowner, who had nurtured a crepe myrtle from a twig to maturity at her previous home. (Szalinska transplanted that one to the cutting and vegetable garden in back and added six more.)
Above: With their interesting bark, crepe myrtles offer four-season interest; they also hold personal meaning for the homeowner, who had nurtured a crepe myrtle from a twig to maturity at her previous home. (Szalinska transplanted that one to the cutting and vegetable garden in back and added six more.)
The bluestone pavers are interplanted with low-growing, mat-forming Mazus. 
Above: The bluestone pavers are interplanted with low-growing, mat-forming Mazus. 
In this dedicated pollinator garden along the side of the house, Szalinska planted deer-resistant perennials including native butterfly weed, rough blazing star, Joe Pye weed, wavy hair grass, and switchgrass. Plus, ‘Moonshine’ yarrow adds a little pop of yellow among the purples (‘Six Hills Giant’ catmint, Russian sage, and ‘May Night’ salvia).
Above: In this dedicated pollinator garden along the side of the house, Szalinska planted deer-resistant perennials including native butterfly weed, rough blazing star, Joe Pye weed, wavy hair grass, and switchgrass. Plus, ‘Moonshine’ yarrow adds a little pop of yellow among the purples (‘Six Hills Giant’ catmint, Russian sage, and ‘May Night’ salvia).
While the garden feels loose and naturalistic, Szalinksa is quick to note that the underlying plan, including the lines of the bluestone patio, is quite structured and geometric.
Above: While the garden feels loose and naturalistic, Szalinksa is quick to note that the underlying plan, including the lines of the bluestone patio, is quite structured and geometric.

Before

Above: Before Landelier’s intervention, the yard was all lawn—and virtually lifeless.

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